That was "Samba" - lunatic, who was madly in love with a woman called "Salsa". Samba had met Salsa on several occasions before and after her marriage to another man. The love between them was so intense that whenever Salsa's husband traveled, she would send her housemaid Eharmony.com Reviews to go fetch her lover - that lunatic. He would spend the night with her but slip away before sunrise. Before she sends her lover away, she would say to him: "Come to me every night so long as the "traveler" - her husband has not yet returned. As widely expected, Samba, the lunatic, continued to see her nightly until the "traveler" returned.
It could be said that Samba, the
lunatic did what he did because he could not get married to Salsa. But after
her marriage to another man, wouldn't it have been proper for him to transfer
his love to another woman other than Salsa? On the other hand, why did Salsa,
despite her love for Samba failed to marry him? Was she afraid she would be
scoffed at, for getting married to a lunatic? It was strange that she would
allow him to sneak into her matrimonial home during the darkness of the night
to make love to her, Eharmony whenever
her husband went on a trip.
She preferred only to have sex with
him but not to marry him. The question is, what was so special about Samba that
drove Salsa so crazy? Was Salsa's husband incapable of satisfying her sexual
cravings? How could a lunatic manage to "heat up" Salsa's marital bed
in a way that was much better than her sane husband did? There are no easy
answers available. One of the probable answers could have been that, this
lunatic was more adept at foreplay than Salsa's sane husband - thus the reason
for Salsa's behavior. She preferred Samba for sex, but lived with her husband
for security and dignity. There may be many other "Salsas" in every
nook and cranny of this earth.
There are married women who would
not divorce their husbands, but at the same time would like to hold fast to
their "Sambas". Husbands for security and dignity, and Sambas for
sex! We are all still confronted with a dilemma: Is love really blind as some
often do say? Eharmony.com If that
was the case, why, didn't Salsa marry Samba and forget about the world around
her - even if her husband wore torn clothes and gathered bones around him? When
should we draw the line between love and sex? This writer believes that the
Royal Highway of true love should always end in the Royal City of marriage.
Should this Royal Highway of true love fall short of reaching this City, will
that still be called true love?
Nothing is more distasteful (to
this writer) than that entire complacency and satisfaction that beam in the
countenances of a newly-married couple. That complacency and satisfaction shown
by newly-weds could soon change into diffidence and frustration if the
foundation of this marriage is deficient in true love. There are sufficient
reasons for every one involved in a romantic relationship to remain circumspect
- and avoid complacency.
The challenge always will be how to
create the good times for true lovers, and get these good times rolling for
years on end?
The writer has been a Globe-trotter
of sorts. And has visited many countries in Africa, the Middle East and Asia,
and has been a networker, a motivator and a writer. He loves making friends all
around the global. In the organization that he belongs to, they bring
opportunities of Health and Wealth to those who are ready to lift themselves
out of a life limitations and unfulfilled dreams.
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