Infidelity forces many uncomfortable changes in people's lives. Consequences of some sort are inevitable. The pain will not go away 100%; but relationships were never meant to be easy and now Bumble.com Reviews the Wayward Spouse/cheater has some new choices to consider.
Whenever we make decisions we know
could have painful consequences it's easy to look for the easy road out.
"Can I find a way to avoid the
pain of what I have chosen to do? Is there a way I could word it that justifies
what I did? What does the future hold for me if I just confess?", are
thoughts that cross all cheaters minds.
There are scores people caught in
affairs uncomfortably twitching looking for answers, wondering what they should
do next. Bumble They are
trying to make sense of what happened. They feel hollow and rotten inside.
They want help from others without
being judged, but not receiving judgement from anyone is next to impossible for
such a fragile topic. People's lives have been wrecked, shaken to the core from
infidelity.
This is a difficult time, but just
please understand this: there is no EASY way out from your situation, but some
light at the end of the tunnel.
So now what do you do?
Think about this first.
Your partner's life, in regards to
their relationship, is in your hands.
The relief of your pain for what
you chose to do is in your hands.
There Is No Easy Choice
Possible Scenarios
1. Tell Your Partner Now
What could happen:
He/she gets mad, calls you every
name in the book and breaks it off with you.
He/she gets mad, calls you every
name in the book, Bumble.com but
decides to stay to see in time if you guys can still be in a relationship or
not.
You may not want to be with them
anyway. So telling your partner now may allow you both to pursue other people.
Yes, it will be devastating news, but keep reading please.
2. Tell Your Partner Later After
You Get Married
What could happen:
He/she gets mad, calls you every
name in the book and breaks it off with you.
He/she gets mad, calls you every
name in the book, but decides to stay to see in time if you guys can still be
in a relationship or not.
You may have wanted to test how it
feels to be in a relationship with someone else. After all, you were unsure
that you wanted to be with them in the first place. You stayed out of guilt.
You could have given you both the chance to move on by confessing earlier.
But now you are married and have
been together even longer and the feelings are going to be even more
complicated. And if you have kids together, things could get very
uncomfortable.
3. Never Confess
What could happen:
The guilt will eat you inside out
every day even if you are not in a relationship with them later. Imagine if you
are still with him/her, and he/she is so happy because they thought they
married someone who they can trust, little do they know what happened many
years earlier. Their smile combined with not knowing will haunt your soul
forever.
The Light at the End of the Tunnel
This may be a sign that you are not
ready for a relationship with your current partner (or perhaps anyone). Please
do not put the pressure of feeling like you need a relationship to be happy
(with ANYONE), at least not now. It will hurt no matter what choice you make,
but not confessing could result in far worse pain later.
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